You show me a nympho super model who's extremely high maintenance and very jealous and I'll find you a guy that's sick of her BS. That's AR and the Packers. Then when you've had enough and are going to break up with her, she introduces you to her equally hot friend who wants to have a threesome. That's AR's MVP season last year.
Yes, given AR's personality, it would have been smart to maybe notify him of your plans to draft a QB last year. Gutey et al should have been better at reading the room given they know better than anyone how AR was going to react. However, if AR's 2020 season was like his 2019 season, parting ways with him might have been in the best interest of the team. What was more likely: AR, at 36, continuing to decline or AR, at 36, having an MVP season?
The other thing that will complicate this is the Packer's cap situation. It is my understanding (both from this board and other sites) that by trading AR now, the rest of his signing bonus comes due immediately. The Packers have no room to absorb this cap hit, so it seems that a trade before June 1st is a non-starter. I don't know the rules, but is it possible that the team he is traded to can agree to absorb his cap hit?
I would bet that this gets messy. AR holds grudges (as we well know). By leaking that he's told people in the organization that he doesn't want to play for the Packers he's pretty much backed himself into a corner. If it's correct about the Packers cap hit, he's actually decreased his leverage because the Packers CANT trade him right now. All he can do is sit out or hope that the front office can offer him a new contract that makes him happy.
In conclusion, this whole thing sucks. The organization lost their bet that AR would either continue to decline or be "ok" with last year's draft. AR, so far, has not won his bet that the Packers will do whatever it takes to keep him and make him happy. In the end, I'm still a Packer fan, and that will continue with or without AR.